Posts tagged equilibrium
Creating a Haven in the Storm

Do you ever feel like life is an endless series of transition and recalibration? Like we barely make it through one holiday or event when we find ourselves in the midst of another demanding situation or challenging season. We catch our breath just in time for another wave to hit.

Our bodies have an inner autopilot (homeostasis) that restores balance in response to external stress. It automatically regulates our blood sugar, hormones, and heart rate. We don’t even have to think about it! 

Mental or emotional harmony, is a more conscious process known as equanimity. It stabilizes us and helps us to weather the storms of life. Amid hectic schedules, successes, failures, celebrations, or crises, equanimity is our ability to return to our center.

Life is full of paradoxical experiences that intermingle and coexist. Broadening our perspective helps us to realize that everything belongs— struggle and ease, conflict and compassion, chaos and peace. Equanimity helps us remain receptive and flexible. It provides a foundation, a firm and fertile ground from which to grow. Beyond survival, resilience is what happens when we not only endure the storm but are changed by it. Equanimity anchors us. Resilience transforms us.

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Finding Happiness in the Micro-Adjustments

Award winning playwright, Tom Stoppard said, “Happiness is equilibrium. Shift your weight.”

Discovering our equilibrium (aka balance) is a dynamic process. Life is constantly changing. What felt like a good balance yesterday might not feel relevant today or next week/month/year. When we are standing on one leg, our muscles automatically make infinite micro-adjustments to help us find our balance. Psychologically speaking, micro-adjustments can be equally effective in helping us discover equilibrium. Deepening our understanding of ourselves and our relationship with balance helps us to identify what feels off kilter so we can shift our weight accordingly. Even minor adjustments in how we think and how we approach life have the potential to influence our experiences in significant and powerful ways and tip our scale toward increased fulfillment and happiness.

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